Of course, and thank you for reading. As for laying partial blame on myself, I've had enough time removed from the events that I can look back on the entire forest of our relationship. I know for years after it first happened I didn't even consider having any responsibility for it. But over the years I know there were things I did that likely nudged her in that direction. And I'm not sure if my friends really knew what to say...but sometimes not saying anything is enough.